I'd read lots of stuff about the IE site before I joined ... most of it saying there were phantom members and all that stuff.
Maybe some of that is correct - but my experiences haven't been bad at all and I would (will) join up again if I feel the need.
I did one month (must say its not v.cheap) and got five nice dates ... one of which was fantastic.
Four months later I joined up again for another month .... six great dates this time, two of which were fantastic ... one of which I'm in touch virtually everyday and meet every week or so; all very discrete and secure.
To get the most out of the site you do have to work at it - don't wait if youre a guy, you have to seek.
Girls join for free and there is a good cross section of society ..... if you're shrewd you can easily suss out who to avoid.
Depends what you seek but I'd say the site attracts members who are not necessarily immediately looking to jump into bed with someone (suits me fine) whereas sites like 'martial affair' seems to have a high proportion of people who just... (Read the full review)