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AdultFriendFinder.com is probably one of the most well known adult dating sites on the web. It is one of the longest running, most established adult dating sites around. Its members' database has grown to enormous proportions and is now one of the the largest in the industry. It also has one of the most comprehensive feature-sets available on any dating site - just check out the list of features above.
Adult FriendFinder is part of the FriendFinder network of dating sites, the most popular of which is AdultFriendFinder (for adult dates) and FriendFinder itself (for mainstream dating). The network also contains a larger number of regional sites - GermanFriendFinder, ItalianFriendFinder, etc., as well as a number of specialty sites, such as GayFriendFinder, Out Personals, LesbianPersonals.com and the popular fetish dating site Alt.com.
If you're interested in joining Adult FriendFinder, we strongly suggest you check out our No. 1 choice, Adult XXX Date, instead, which has the same members' database but is cheaper to join. Given that Adult XXX Date has the same enormous database of members as Adult FriendFinder, you'll find the exact same people on the site but, apart from having a cheaper 1-month joining fee, Adult XXX Date has some advanced features and a much improved design. Why not check it out and see which one you prefer?
If you're interested in joining Adult FriendFinder, we strongly suggest you check out our No. 1 choice, Adult XXX Date, instead, which has the same members' database but is cheaper to join.
Adult Friend Finder comes in high on our adult dating list mainly because of its enormous members database - this is what counts more than anything after all! It has over 100 million active members, which puts it well ahead of its closest runner up in our list (which has 40 million members). Your chances of success on any adult dating site (just like dating in the real world) is very much a numbers game. The greater the pool of people you have to choose from, the better your chances of getting a date, and also the more picky you can be. So in reviewing these adult dating sites we put great stock in the size of their members' databases. In terms of numbers, very few sites beat AdultFriendFinder.
AdultFriendFinder has all the main features you should look for in an adult dating site, including many features that are not available elsewhere - see the list above for a full list of the features available.
You can build a large profile with as much or as little information as you like regarding your lifestyle, interests, sexual aspirations and more. The more detail you provide, the better your chances at being matched with members who suit your desires, and vice-versa. As well as written information, you can upload multiple photos, including nude and explicit shots. In fact, the site provides a filter so you can remove explicit or nude photos as you browse, if you prefer to keep those things for a later time. Photos tend to be of high quality and members have taken the time to make sure their photos show them in the best way possible.
As well as photos, members can upload videos, giving them the opportunity to express themselves. This is also your chance to show off your best attributes, enticing members to message you through the use of your voice and body language. This is a really useful way of getting some attention and showing people what you’re all about.
You can find members by performing searches. AdultFriendFinder.com offers one of the most in depth searches we’ve seen, with dozens of options to help target people who suit your social, physical and sexual needs. Whatever your preferences, you should be able to find matches here.
As well as searching, you can also receive automated matches, which are produced based on the information you provide in your profile. If you prefer women of a certain age or ethnicity, for example, it will be more likely to match you with those women. This is a time saver and also allows you to view profiles which you might have missed.
As you explore the site you’ll see Gold members identified, which is useful because it shows you who will be able to reply to your messages. There’s also a very handy Standard Contacts upgrade which you can pay for, which allows free members to reply to your messages. If you see a new member (who hasn’t upgraded) and you’d like to talk to them before anyone else, this upgrade is a real bonus.
Adult Friend Finder have really capitalized on their enormous members' database by offering a variety of tools to allow members to contact one another and play together online as a prelude perhaps to meeting in person - these include the enormous chat rooms, which are broken down as follows:
AdultFriendFinder, like most adult dating sites, allows you to choose from a Standard (Free) or Gold membership. Being a standard member allows you only limited access, but will allow you to get a feel for the site and see what it's like. All you need to do to become a standard member is fill out a short form, answering a few multiple choice questions about yourself and write a few lines about who you are and what you're looking for in a playmate. Don't spend too long on this, as you can easily update it later. Free standard membership is only intended to give you a feel for the site and nothing more.
In order to interact with other members, including e-mailing them, messaging them, and chatting to them over your webcam, you will need to upgrade to a premium-level Gold membership. The advantages of Gold membership are many and varied and will really let you get the most out of the site, but the main reason you'll want to upgrade will be to initiate contact with other members or reply to other members who've contacted you. So Gold membership may be essential if you wish hook up with other members in the real world (off-line).
Adult entertainment is also a major feature of Adult Friend Finder. Upgraded members can check out classic and modern adult movies. There’s plenty of range and you can find what you’re looking for based on your personal sexual preferences. Other entertainment options are available in the form of model cam performances, in which professional models have live erotic shows for your pleasure. These may cost extra, depending on what the model wishes to charge. Gold Members currently receive $10-$25 of free credits for live nude model chat in a special offer. Members can also use their webcams to offer broadcasts, and many of these are free of charge.
Many exhibitionists on AdultFriendFinder choose to broadcast their webcams publicly and, believe it or not, you can watch these members playing live on their webcams without having to upgrade your subscription. Watching other members indulging in various sexual acts live on their webcams is highly-addictive and is a bit like watching Big Brother - only X-rated! You can access the webcams by selecting "Video" in the drop down menu and then "Live Member Webcams". Once inside, you can filter the webcams by gender (man, woman, man+man, woman+woman, man+woman, groups or TS/TV/TG). You can also search the webcams by member's gender, location and age, and sort the results according to newest broadcast, distance from you, the number of members watching the broadcast, or the webcam broadcast's user rating. From here you can also send the members a quick message and access their full profiles. When we visited, there were over 1,600 members broadcasting publicly on their webcams!
The joining fees for Adult Friend Finder are very competitive, especially when you consider all the advantages Adult Friend Finder has over other similar sites in this category, which include:
Perhaps most importantly, AdultFriendFinder has genuine profiles of genuine people. Far too many other adult dating sites have been accused again and again of using fake profiles of sexy female members in order to entice male members to pay to upgrade their subscriptions. Male members upgrade in order to reply to the e-mails sent to them by these non-existent women (otherwise known as fembots), but once they upgrade, they hear nothing more from the female members who e-mailed them. This kind of practice is rife within the industry and gives the whole adult dating industry a bad name. No dating site can guarantee that all its member profiles are genuine. However, dating sites seem to be governed by one of three policies: (i) actively seek out and ban fake profiles; (ii) don't worry about fake profiles, as long as the cash keeps rolling in; (iii) create fake profiles (or fembots), in order to entice men to upgrade their subscriptions. We know from experience that AdultFriendFinder follow the first type of policy, as they do their best to get rid of any fake profiles which they find and are one of the only adult dating networks that do not use fembots. In short, you can be assured that the profiles on Adult FriendFinder and all its sister sites are real.This is just one of the many reasons why AdultFriendFinder has remained in business for around 20 years and has amassed more than 100 million members.
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