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Had always been resistant to join an openly-identified sex dating site -- although I had heard positive comments about AFF over the grapevine. I signed up for a one-month gold membership. I was placed on an auto-renewal billing schedule although the promotional material suggested this would not be done. It took awhile before I was successful in removing myself from this category. I estimate that 90 percent of the profiles posted are phony, computer-generated humanoids. If you see a photo of a woman with pubic hair it's almost a certainty that she doesn't exist. If you like to be entertained with nude photography, there are photos of beautiful females on this site. It's my sad conclusion that most are figments of the imagination. After "flirting" or sending an e-mail, I received come-on responses from many. It was disturbing to note that, in at last two dozen instances, the response back was a prototype. In other words, I received the same exact e-mail response with hotmail come-on from more than 24 different women. If you're a voyeur, you'll get your money's worth. Otherwise, it's a crapshoot. I did connect with several "real" people -- unfortunately, at least half were from out-of-state. If you're single, idealistic and naive it's best to stay clear of this site. Couples are likely to have considerably more successful. My sense is that the "real" members on AFF are found among couples who are "in the lifestyle" (i.e., veterans or newcomers to swinging), exploring possible modifications in a previously traditional, monogamous relationship or cautiously gathering an overview of what might be available. Many couples do express an interest in single men -- but their criteria suggest they want a stud, with at least an eight-inch penis who can go all night (and all day) long. If you're a single woman seeking action -- this place is probably heaven.
In summary, I would not recommend Adult Friend Finder to a friend.
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